Three Of The Eight Handwriting Traits That Scream DANGER!

I'm often asked:
"Can you REALLY tell me if this guy's a jerk, just from looking at his handwriting?"

Or...
"By looking at her handwriting, can you tell me if she's a user... who's just looking for a "Sugar daddy"?

To both questions, my answer is YES!

If you know how to read the signs, you can learn a great deal about a potential date or mate's basic personality... both the positives AND the negatives.

Concerning the negatives...

There are eight handwriting traits that should be considered as RED FLAGS. And while I think it's true that all of us exhibit SOME of these traits... in varying degrees, it's when these traits are exaggerated... or when certain combinations show up in someones' handwriting, don't walk... RUN for the nearest exit.

To keep this article as short as possible, I going to talk about one ESPECIALLY DANGEROUS combination of the eight red flag traits. I call it the "Gentleman-Jerk/Sweet-Bitch" combination. This is indicated when you see a combination of three particular characteristics (of the eight possibles) ...ESPECIALLY if they're exaggerated.

Here they are:

1. An obvious slant variation from left to right in the same sentence.
(Indicates a possible dual personality.)

This person has unpredictable mood swings, and has problems sticking to the decisions they make. A relationship with a person who's letter-slant varies wildly will have you always wondering if your next conversation will be with Dr. Jekyll... or Mr. Hyde.

2. A horizontal t-bar that slants downward to the right
(Indicates a domineering personality.)

This is the control freak... the bully from school. This trait is actually a fear of NOT being in control. And fear motivates people in strange ways... sarcasm, whining, even possibly cruel or violent behavior.

3. A small tight loop, almost square, at the beginning of a letter.
(Indicates a very jealous, possessive personality.)

This person is very possessive. And has trouble with their partner having relationships with anyone else... be it family or friends... male or female.

The "Gentleman-Jerk":

Talk about a Jeykll - Hyde, this one will fly into a rage... sometimes violent... when his partner comes home from visiting family or friends. But once the fit is over, often exhibits tenderness and remorse.

Because of the dual personality...

The rules for this relationship will change constantly... and the partner never has a clue where the relationship is or is going!

The "Sweet Bitch":

Because you love her, you bring her flowers. She's thrilled, and fixes your favorite meal. Then she flies into a jealous fit - You brought flowers... which tells her you're feeling guilty about having an affair with someone.

This person won't/can't let you out of her sight... because of her jealous nature. And tries to control your every move.

Finding the balance...

Remember, that we ALL some of these negative traits. And the key to happiness in life is to find a good balance. There is no such thing as a perfect mate. And knowledge of issues to be resolved is the first step in getting them fixed.

An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure...

Now that you know a little bit about what to look for... if you're in the dating game, you can avoid the most obvious mistakes. If you're already married, this information can help you understand your partner what's makes relationships work.

Til next time...
Cheryl